My server crashed when tested with Siege... why?

You ran out of memory, so OOMKiller started shooting random processes, which is why it stayed unresponsive… something important got killed.

You should reduce the MaxClients setting in your Apache config (in the section) to something like 15.

That is good advice, thank you.

If I lower MaxClients to 15, what happens to user #16? They just wait a little longer?

Thanks again!

Yes, they get queued. MaxClients is the number of simultaneous clients that can be served. As long as you have no idle connections for some sort of AJAX type stuff, that means that if a client is being consumed, it's because the server is working to process their request. There comes a point where processing more simultaneous requests is counter-productive, because you've got a bottleneck somewhere and splitting things even more ways just slows things down for everyone.

Make sure your services (DB/WEB) are setup to queue (or even reject) requests when flooded. It's better to have an message from apache saying the max clients has been reached than crashing everyone.

Obviously, if you need to handle a lot of trafic, upgrade to a higher Linode.

A good way to tell if your machine is properly setup is to flood your website with requests (using jmeter or other) and see if you can crash the thing or not.